Della Mae Proctor was born Feb. 6, 1958, in Talihina. She died March 14, 2023, in Tulsa.
She was raised by her parents Andy and Judy (Lasley) Proctor on the homestead in Vernon, Okla. She graduated from hanna high school in 1976.
She earned an associate degree from OSUIT in Information Technology and served many years working for her tribe, Muscogee (Creek) Nation.
She is preceded in death by her parents, Andy and Judy (Lasley) Proctor; brothers, Bill Proctor and Luster Proctor; sister Linda McCoy and brother-in-law Melvin McCoy; nephew Keith McCoy; and her beloved dogs Cisco, Sage and Lovey.
She is survived by her children, Ellie and Daniel Factor and Steven Barnett; grandchildren: Kaitlyn Factor, Josiah Factor (Jen), Isaak Factor, and Kolby Factor; and her forthcoming "greaties", the new Factor twins; brother, Andrew Proctor (Tonya) and sisters Minnie Cannon, Liza Proctor, and Lula Tansey; and her best friend Ron. She is also survived by a host of nieces and nephews whom she loved as her own: Jeffrey Proctor, Darrell Proctor, Richard Proctor, Judith Kay Proctor, Andy Proctor, Grant Proctor, Meske Proctor, Preslee Proctor, Evan Tansey, Vince Proctor, Jordan Proctor, Jonathan Proctor, Patricia Fields, Melissa McCoy, Pamela Cravett, Jalissa Lauderdale, Thomas McCoy, Mia Cravett, Carmen Fields, Jensi Fields, Angela Proctor, Ryan Bowman, Frank Bowman, Cole Bowman, Charlotte Salmon, Billy Proctor, Kelli Proctor, Joshua Cloud, Kelsey Two Bears, Amberly Sampson, Darrell Proctor II, Kai Two Bears, Adrianna Proctor, Jesse Proctor, Paige Proctor, Dylan Proctor, Jack Proctor, Peyton Proctor, Adrian Proctor, Kayonna Proctor, Matthew Proctor, Evelyn Allen, Mia Allen, Asher Lauderdale, and Chandler Lauderdale.
Visitation will be at 6 p.m. on Friday, March 17, 2023 at the Weogufkee Indian Baptist Church in Hanna.
Funeral service will be at 1 p.m. Saturday, March 18, 2023 at the Wegofukee Indian Baptist Church in Hanna with Reverend Paul Maxey officiating. Burial will follow the service at the Weogufkee Indian Baptist Church Cemetery.
Serving as pallbearers will be Della's nephews and serving as honorary pallbearers will be Della's nieces.

Arrangements and servies are under the direction of Integrity Funeral Service.