The National Day of Forgiveness serves as a reminder for everyone to embrace the power of forgiveness in their lives. The Oklahoma Department of Corrections (ODOC) is actively working to create opportunities for reconciliation and healing through its Community Outreach Unit, which provides a range of resources designed to support emotional well-being, understanding, and second chances.

The Community Outreach Unit’s mission is to cultivate meaningful dialogue and encourage personal growth among inmates, their families, and the broader community. By promoting the values of forgiveness and rehabilitation, ODOC helps individuals navigate the complex emotional and psychological challenges associated with incarceration and reintegration into society.

Toni Scheihing, Administrator of Community Outreach, emphasizes that forgiveness, whether directed inwardly or toward others, is a transformative tool that can break cycles of crime and pave the way for lasting change. “Everyone needs forgiveness,” Scheihing said. “Forgiveness is not about forgetting, but finding a way to move forward.”

One of the unique approaches offered by the Community Outreach Unit is the Victim-Inmate Dialogue Program. In this initiative, ODOC staff mediate confidential conversations between survivors and inmates, allowing both parties to seek closure and emotional resolution. Survivors, victims, or their families can request mediation, and inmates may choose to participate voluntarily. Mediators ensure these dialogues are safe and productive, helping offenders confront the impact of their actions while fostering empathy and responsibility.

Families of incarcerated individuals also benefit greatly from these programs, finding spaces to process their emotions and build healthier relationships. The unit provides daily support, helping families navigate ODOC’s policies and procedures, while also planning future seminars to further strengthen these connections.

In collaboration with faith-based organizations, mental health professionals, and advocacy groups like YWCA, Palomar, and ReMerge Oklahoma, ODOC ensures that both survivors and previously incarcerated individuals have access to resources that promote healing and constructive dialogue around forgiveness. These partnerships are instrumental in reducing recidivism and enhancing public safety by addressing the root emotional issues that often accompany criminal behavior.

Another significant initiative within the Community Outreach Unit is the Apology Bank, a restorative justice effort that allows incarcerated individuals to express genuine remorse through written letters. These letters, though not directly sent to victims unless requested, offer a meaningful opportunity for offenders to acknowledge their wrongs, fostering a sense of personal responsibility and emotional growth. Victims and families can access the Apology Bank at their own pace, allowing for healing on their terms.

As part of this year’s National Day of Forgiveness, ODOC encourages those impacted by crime to explore pathways toward forgiveness, if and when they feel ready. For more information, visit ODOC Victim Services or call 405-425-2607 to speak with a victim service advocate who can guide you through available resources and support options.